Michael,
Don't give up.
It's a really easy job. I can e-mail you really good instructions. You do need a special 60mm adapter to remove the clutch kit from the housing. I can let you borrow it. You do need a air compressor and air tools to remove it.
I found removing the exhaust the hardest part.
You don't have to take bumper off
You don't need clutch alignment tool
You must repack clutch while you are there
You must change the triple seals
You can resurface both clutch discs for about 50 bucks usd
The triple sealing rings you can get from ferrari uk as well as the grease for Flywheel
You can buy a new clutch and FW for about 3000 usd installed at a dealer but why bother if the FW, and intermediate plate and pressure plate are good.
If you are not wanting to resurface the clutch then here are a medium to high price for a clutch kit. I am not sure which one your car uses.
http://shop.vendio.com/sodacom/item/...963/index.html $253.00
http://shop.vendio.com/sodacom/item/...468/index.html $780.00
I suspect the original owner was not good at shifting. I have gotten 40-60 on the 308 clutch and 50-60 on a 348 and 40-50 on a 355 clutch.
It should not take more then 4-6 hours of honest work to replace a clutch. That includes beer and "I need to go buy this tool" time.
Sam