Corner weights
You must do a corner weight set up. You can't just wind the spring perches up or down and measure ride height on god knows what unlevel surface and get your car to handle. It must be corner weighted correctly. You sound like a smart person, but just to start the corner weight image in your mind, think of a table with one short leg. That is what your car will be like if you have a corner that is not loaded with its correct weight.
Do your aligement, set a base ride height, set tire pressures, disconnect sway bars, get car on surface plate with the scales (or a shimmed to level floor) and set the corners to have a good diagonal cross weight( LF to RR, RF to LR) with the front weight (left to right) as close as possible. your ride height should be still close, but corner weights are more important. Just trying to help you get the handling you want. But you have to do the basic setup so you know where the suspension and weight is at before you can really start to tune it for the feel you want.
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